Dear Memorial,

Dear Memorial,  

………. But, it’s just a dog!

………. Just get another cat!

How many times have I heard things like this after we have lost a pet.

As you may have noticed we are now offering “pet memorial” here on our website.

As a veterinary nurse I have not been personally spared from the trauma of the loss of my own pets and as a veterinary professional I see regularly the pain and grief our clients experience when their pet takes their last breath. I believe by creating a pet memorial it’s an option for people to take a crucial step in their grieving process, offering a tangible way to honor and process the loss of our beloved companion.

Pets hold a unique place in all our lives- they provide unconditional love, non-judgement, companionship, a reason to carry on and a sense of routine. When they pass, their absence can be deeply felt and without a space for remembrance, it can be difficult to navigate the emotions that follow often- for some often with no support.

 A memorial helps to transform our grief into something meaningful, giving us a way to express our love, to celebrate cherished memories, and to acknowledge the bond we shared. Whether it’s a physical tribute like a framed photo or a heartfelt written reflection, a memorial provides comfort by keeping their presence alive in a personal and intentional way.

Beyond personal healing, a pet memorial also plays an important role in providing closure. The process of creating a tribute allows us to actively engage with our grief, rather than suppressing or ignoring it. Rituals- such as lighting a candle, writing a letter, or planting a tree- give structure to grief and help guide emotions toward healing.

For those of us who view our pets as family, memorialization affirms that their life was valuable and deserving of remembrance. It also allows friends, family, or even a broader community to acknowledge the loss, offering support and shared reflection.

As there is no time on grief we welcome anyone and everyone who would like to contribute. Through memorials, grief becomes not just about loss, but about preserving love in a meaningful, enduring way.

Nadine Hook